Family Tree

Seven generations, from the 1700s to today: the Scharmers and Peterses of Elmshorn in Holstein, the Conners and Caldwells of Ireland and Massachusetts, the Wilsons of Texas and California, and the Sharmers of Nebraska and California who joined them. Joe’s direct line is in the boxes with the darker border; brothers, sisters and other relatives are in the plainer ones. Click a name to read more.

⚭ = married. Dates come from the church books, civil records and censuses gathered on this site; “about” means the year is worked out from an age. Living members of the family are listed without dates.

Holstein, 1700s

Jacob Peters

Night watchman of Klostersande, Elmshorn
died 11 March 1777
⚭ Catharina Wehrmann
Children: Hinrich, Johann, Jacob, Jochim, Christian, Magdalen

Jochim Scharmer

of Glindesmoor, Hohenfelde
died before 1823
⚭ Anna (or Elsabe) Timmermann

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their son

Holstein, about 1774–1830

Jochim Peters

born 29 August 1774, Klostersande
of the Wehdenkamp, Elmshorn
⚭ Catharina Margaretha Kock (Koch)
Children: Catharina, Anna, Margaretha, Magdalena, Matthias Jacob

Johann Scharmer

of Elmshorn, sailor
very likely drowned in a shipwreck off the Elbe, 1847
⚭ (1) 1823 Magdalena Peters, died 1825
children Catharina (1823–1824), Hinrich (1825–1840)

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Johann Scharmer ⚭ (2) Anna Peters

married 8 February 1829, Elmshorn
Anna born 8 April 1798 on the Wehdenkamp
probably died 19 February 1865, Elmshorn

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their children

Elmshorn → America

Joseph Sharmer I

born Jochim Scharmer, 25 May 1829, Elmshorn
sailor, gold miner, cattleman, banker
died 14 June 1898, Sidney, Nebraska

Anna Magdalena Scharmer

born 18 November 1831
⚭ 1859 Johann Thede
⚭ 1871 Georg Heinrich Hoffmann

Anna Scharmer

born 9 November 1834
died 17 December 1874, Elmshorn

Johann Scharmer

born 29 July 1837
later life not known

Ireland

Martin Conner

of Ireland

Mathew Caldwell ⚭ Alice

of Ireland

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their daughter

Massachusetts and Nebraska

Peter Conner (O’Connor) ⚭ (1) Catherine Caldwell

married 25 June 1853, Roxbury, Massachusetts
Peter: born Ireland; ropemaker, stone mason; died 9 September 1881, Fremont, Nebraska
Catherine: born Ireland about 1836; died 1 November 1864, Braintree
Peter ⚭ (2) Ellen Sheedy, born Ireland about 1838

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Alice

born 2 October 1856, Plymouth
⚭ Frederick Nirk; ⚭ 1894 John Higgins
died 10 June 1921, Los Angeles

Anna (Annie)

born about 1858

Mary E.

born about 1861

Catherine “Katie” O’Connor

born 20 November 1863, Quincy
died 11 April 1907, Sidney, Nebraska

Lizzie (half-sister)

born 7 December 1865, Braintree
daughter of Peter and Ellen
⚭ Jacob Heintz, Chicago

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Sidney, Nebraska

Joseph Sharmer I ⚭ Katie O’Connor

married 10 November 1884, Sidney, Nebraska
witnesses: Lizzie Conner and Jacob Heintz

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their children

Laura “Aunt Larry”

born December 1885
⚭ Myron O. Sager
daughter Catherine Sager (Briscoe)

Kathryn

26 September 1887 – 28 October 1969
⚭ 1918 Earl Kratz
lived in Sidney all her life

Josephine “Dodie”

born 22 November 1889
⚭ Clair Van Slyke
children Gretchen and Jacy
died 10 March 1943

Joseph Sharmer II

born 10 November 1897, Sidney
fruit salesman, fig grower, Merced County supervisor
died 26 February 1954

Texas and California

James William Wilson ⚭ Nettie A. Holt

James: 14 November 1882 – 2 April 1944
Nettie: 14 February 1890 – 5 September 1956
both born in Texas, buried in Merced

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their daughter

Joseph Sharmer II

Florence M. Brennan

born February 1897, California
daughter of Thomas Brennan and Margaret Fox
⚭ Joseph Sharmer 13 October 1928, San Francisco
his first wife

Joseph Sharmer II ⚭ Ruby E. Wilson

Ruby: 1 February 1909 – 18 May 1981
Planada and Merced, California

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their children

A baby daughter

born and died 27 September 1939, Merced

Joseph Sharmer III

30 April 1941, Fresno – 30 November 2017, Dayton, Nevada
⚭ Hannelore Ahrens

Jay Myron Sharmer

7 July 1943, Fresno – 13 November 2006
⚭ Nancy Karr
sons Jay Jr. and Randy

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Joseph Sharmer IV

who gathered this site
daughters Katie, Rosie and Christa

Cousins in the letters

Gretchen Van Slyke Welsh

24 April 1912 – 16 November 1998
daughter of Dodie
⚭ 1937 Jim Welsh

Cpl. Joseph C. “Jacy” Van Slyke

17 January 1921 – 25 January 1945
son of Dodie; killed in action in the Philippines

Catherine Sager Briscoe

born 1910, daughter of Laura and Myron Sager
lived on Octavia Street, San Francisco
buried with her mother in Woodlawn Cemetery, Colma

Sidney Frederick Nirk

8 September 1880 – 8 December 1957
son of Katie’s sister Alice

Where the branches are told

The Scharmer and Peters families of Elmshorn, back to the night watchman Jacob Peters: Joseph Sharmer I: From Elmshorn to Sidney and Jochim Scharmer of Elmshorn. The Conners and Caldwells: Katie O’Connor Sharmer: From Quincy to Sidney. Everyone in the letters: People.

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